In my own part of the World, it’s very rare for a woman seeking to choose a life partner to overly express her loving feelings to a man. Women are, most of the time, very shy to woo men openly, and part of the reason is the fear of rejection.
And indeed, the possibility of a rejection goes high when there is a role-reversal in this case. Mostly, males take the first steps when it comes to asking females for closer relationships. And so, when a girl expresses emotional feelings to a guy, his antennae goes up. He senses a red flag.
However, there are some subtle tricky ways a girl could express her loving feelings to a guy without saying a word in that direction.
One of such ways to express love indirectly to a man is by salutation. Somebody said that salutation is not love but I can tell you for free that it is the beginning. The way a girl greets and asks after you is an obvious green light.
The second that is so close to the first is how she smiles at you. She seems to love every bit of thing you do. She is always smiling and laughing at your actions whenever she is around you.
But the one that seriously provoked my thought was when one of the girls I coached recently revealed to me that one of the ways she tries to attract a potential life partner was to always challenge his opinions. And for her, this manner of expressing loving feelings to a man without appearing emotional, romantic or loving has worked for her most of the time.
Paying attention to a guy and his affairs is another powerful way to raise your hand of interest when it comes to intimate relationships. The way she listens when he is talking; the way she asks after his affairs; the way she seeks his opinions; etc, are all not-so-open pointers to expressing her love to him indirectly.
Touch is another way. When she is around him and she is talking, she’ll be touching him. And you know touch is a great transmitter and especially, in this kind of scenario.
We are all emotional beings but it is important we do things in the right way.
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